Parent dating after death
Dating after the loss of a spouse can help establish a new identity and can help remedy feelings of loneliness and vulnerability. Decide if dating or a long-term relationship is best for you.
Identify complicating factors that exist for dating.
Offra has lectured extensively to various groups, conducted support groups for several organizations, and has been writing a weekly column "Relationship Matters" for the Santa Cruz Sentinel since 2001.
It is wonderful to want to find love again after the death of your spouse.
Not everyone is so enthusiastic about one parent dating again after the other parent has died, however.
In fact, many people feel confused, disappointed, and even angry when Mom or Dad steps back into the dating scene.
Her work includes: mate selection, marriage, long term relationships, gay and lesbian couples, work relationships, parenting issues, family interactions, friendships, and conflict resolutions.
is a licensed psychologist in clinical practice in Santa Cruz, California for over 25 years, and specializes in relationship issues for couples and individuals for improved quality of life.
In his March 2012 article for "Psychology Today," emotions expert Professor Aaron Ben-Zeév, cautions widows and widowers that as a survivor, your love did not die with the spouse.I decided to trust that my body was telling me ‘it’s OK! When I was so wrapped up in the sadness of losing Mark, I had no space to let someone in. He and I met a month later and spent seven hours together on our first date.When my mother’s long-term boyfriend passed away, I was worried that she might be wary of taking another chance on romance.Psychologically, a new relationship may fill a void physically, but you must be prepared to love two people at the same time -- a dynamic that is unique to widows and widowers.There is a difference between casually dating and seeking a long-term relationship.