Minorities dating with discrimination
Ok Cupid's Ok Trends blog detailed the prevalence of racial prejudice on its own service back in 2009.
According to the site's internal stats, white males get the most responses to their messages than any other group, and that white, Asian and Hispanic women reply to non-white men less than a quarter of the time.
Shallowness in online dating manifests in different ways, but is mostly about appearance. The plight of bald men has been well articulated by the likes of Larry David and Louis CK.
And of course, anytime we talk about appearance, race will eventually come into play.
Now that I’m four years into professional matchmaking, I’ve seen clear patterns emerge when it comes to race and attraction. Women of every racial background seem to strongly prefer dating you.
Asian and Latin women are most popular with the gents.
A new study of racism in Ok Cupid messaging finds a bit of hope in a sea of largely same-race interactions.
They are the hardest singles for me to match, because they tend to be excluded from the match searches of the majority of clients.“Ultimately each one of our own individual choices is profoundly informed by the community we grow up in, perhaps by the relationships we had with our siblings or parents," Silverberg said."I mean, to try and unpack that would probably take years for each person and so…I don’t know…I give wide latitude to other people when they talk about the kind of people they’re into.” As we all should. I think we should just stop pretending that race is a preference.However people were more willing to reply to a user of a different race than they were to initiate contact.And right after they did so, for about a week, they were more likely to start a conversation with someone of another race.