How to speed up the dating process
I just can’t seem to let go of the hurt he has caused me and don’t know how to move on productively.
I asked him to man up and meet me in person and tell me why we didn’t work out, and he mentioned that I deserved better and that he had commitment issues.
If this has happened to you, you know how disappointing it can be.
But if you understand a guy’s process when it comes to dating, you can save yourself a lot of frustration and instead set yourself up for the kind of lasting love you’re looking for with the right guy.
Men and women think about the early stages of dating very differently.
Women often try to read too much into their early interactions with men, which then leads them to think that after the first few dates they’re in what I call the “instant relationship”.
Ever wonder what a man really thinks during those early encounters with you? Have you ever gone on a few dates with a guy, thought things were going well, and then things fizzled out without warning?
Fortunately, the majority of people do not seem to share my particular troubles with speed dating.
Yet new research does point out a different dating problem: being confronted with a large number of choices can make it harder to make a good decision.
Men and women are rotated to meet each other over a series of short "dates" usually lasting from three to eight minutes depending on the organization running the event.
At the end of each interval, the organizer rings a bell, clinks a glass, or blows a whistle to signal the participants to move on to the next date.