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I've lived in the Uk and am now in Italy, and boy, the dating style is very different. I confirm british posters said, in France, Spain and Italy, multi-dating is a deal-breaker.
I guess this is partly due to cultural differences but there are a lot of variances across the continent. There is a assumed/unspoken rule than when you start to date you become exclusive.
Well, for one, it has obvious, superficial reasons, such as the typically super-white teeth and perfectly groomed appearances that Americans tend to have compared to their more natural-yet-not-necessarily-better-looking European counterparts.
But then again, Americans tend to dress up less often and like wearing their sneakers and sweatpants everywhere without ever being judged, a level of a relaxed attitude I would sometimes like to see in my own country.
Sociologists realized that this was an unparalleled chance to study large numbers of people, and so interviewed the pairs.
A large number of both English women and US men answered that the other partner was going "too fast" for them.
The idea is that you would at least drop the rest if you find a good connection with one.
While in some countries the typical American idea of dating, whereby two people exclusively see each other and others know about it, does exist, it is not prevalent in all societies.
From my experience at an American university, I understand that dating in the U. is a lot more spontaneous and relies a lot less on checking every detail about the other person.
Love is found, and dismissed, very casually and almost according to the preferences of the particular day.
But other couples we knew almost never met alone before they started their relationship; they were always going out in groups.
I guess the biggest difference is that there's a lot less formality to it. When I was going out with a woman from NZ she insisted that we were not dating.