Dating for mentally ill
I'm a sexual assault survivor, and I was diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder earlier this year. "This is a lot to deal with," one partner said when he found out. The first month of a new relationship is often a heady blend of orgasms, dopamine and trying to keep your embarrassing quirks under wraps.
Because I'm open about my experience and have written about it for various websites, most of my partners date me with the knowledge that I have preexisting mental health issues. It's the time of black lace lingerie before the period-stained, polka-dotted cotton panties come out, the time where you talk about your punk band from high school but not your membership in the Dungeons and Dragons club.
Even better, we seemed to have a “high-match percent.” To be sure, I checked some of the questions he answered, just in case. As someone who lives with dysthymia, or persistent mild depression, I struggle against this stigma.
(If you’ve never suffered from depression, it might sound nonsensical that I would do this at my most self-confident.Do you want to date someone that thinks therapy is useless?You don’t need to stalk a potential date, but you can use the information at hand to decide if someone will accept you as you are. Don’t Jump The Gun One reaction I’ve seen a lot is the tendency to !Chris*, 28, also says he discloses his mental illness to potential partners right off the bat.Five years ago, Chris was diagnosed with bipolar disorder, which affects 3 to 5 percent of the population.