Been dating for 4 years
However, after 4 years, we've talked about a wedding, but he still has not proposed. You could do as many have suggested and manipulate him into a proposal.But will you be happy knowing that you have an easily manipulated husband?If we broke up it would be like a family memeber died. That he needs to be 100% sure that he wants to marry me, ect and he is not. After another week i emailed him and told him that i know we can work things out. How can he date someone after 2 months of breaking up when we were together for 4 years. It sounds like he's hurting alot, and boys seem to take stupid measures to stop the pain.He said that he has not been the boyfriend that i deserve and has to "let me go" even though he doesn't want to. He deleted his facebook account cuz he said he doesn't want to know what I am doing cuz it would hurt too much. I think that pushed him more away.emailed me back saying we cant be together now, we would be miserable together. I can't even think of being with someone else right now. We were soo comfortable with one another and best friends. A rebound is a good distraction, but after a while he'll recognize it's hollowness. At this point, everyone knows you are together, so when you go places without each other, everyone asks where the other is.
Try to think of it as a positive thing - he'll realise how special you are in comparison to this young bimbo AND you now have decent reason and incentive to not talk to him!
You tell the same jokes (and laugh at them even though they aren't funny), you watch the same Netflix shows, and you read the same Buzz Feed articles. Nothing exciting going on here, we’re just the old married couple of the group. That’s twice the amount of people who love and care about you, twice the amount of fun, and yes, twice the amount of lectures. After years of dating, they know what to say to comfort you and make things better. There is no one that understands me more than my S.
You bicker about the most minuscule things, you own a pet together, and your friends call you mom and dad. Not only do you get a boyfriend, you also get a whole second family!
You don't even bother putting on makeup, because you are usually in sweatpants (or a fashionable onesie). Arguing (about literally nothing of importance) has become the new making out, and you won’t stop until your S. agrees that is DEFINITELY more important than any other Monday night show, am I right? O.’s house freaking out, you’ll be thankful to have another mom to calm you down. There is no one I would rather call when I’m sad, happy, or just in need of a conversation.
In the beginning, you wouldn’t dare burp or do anything less than appealing in front of your significant other. The fart barrier has been broken, you leave the door open when you go to the bathroom, and you may even pop each other’s pimples (if you’re weird like that). You’re not afraid to disagree; in fact, you almost willingly disagree just for the sake of it. Whenever you go out to eat, you both scream “CHIPOTLE! We even take color-coordinated pictures you could put on a Christmas card. But when you run into a mailbox, take out your side mirror, and run into your S. When you do poorly on a test, you get in a fight with your best friend, or something happens in your family, your S. Knowing someone is always there for you no matter what is one of the best feelings in the world. O., who has known me and stood by my side for years.